We are It

Who we become is fostered on how we value ourselves. The opinions of others as to how we should think, believe, and be has no bearing on us. We are the authors of our own circumstances and therefore everyone else’s opinion is null and void. © Norma Bobb-Semple 2022

Value

The value we place on ourselves dictates how we would allow people to treat us. © Norma Bobb-Semple 2022

Valued

Everyone wants to be valued. Before seeking recognition from outside of ourselves we need to know and believe that we have value. If we don’t we would be exploited by others. © Norma Bobb-Semple 2022

Trends

We like to follow trends but if it crosses over into how we evaluate people it would not only be a disservice to them but also to us. We are unique and we bring equal value when we interact with others. See people for who they are. There aren’t any norms in this world, only […]

Choice

We have to be in the habit of making choices. If we don’t choose who we want to become, where we want to go, what our values are, someone else is going to choose to put us into boxes of their own making. © Norma Bobb-Semple 2021

Assumptions

We can’t assume, based on our own values, what a person’s standing is. People aren’t caricatures, they are individuals and we can’t assign behavioural patterns to them, based on their lineage. © Norma Bobb-Semple 2021

In Control

We are in control of our lives. We have to ask ourselves whether the choices we make correlates with our core values. Our values shouldn’t be packaged and sold to the highest bidder. Our destiny depends on our vigilance. © Norma Bobb-Semple 2021

Making a Choice

Do not leave anything to chance. You have to be involved in every area of your life. Every decision you make should be on the basis of your values and commitment to yourself. If you aren’t committed to youself and you place your life into the hands of others you will be lonely, confused, lost, […]

Investing in Self

  If we believe we have to trade our values and self worth in other to gain the affections or acceptance of others our path forward will be littered with disappointments and regret.   Life is a short sojourn, today we are here, tomorrow deceased.   We ought to be invested in ourselves always.  There […]