Control

We can’t control our beginning or our ending. The only space in which we have control is now. Now is where, by the choices we make, our present is foreshadowed by pain or joy. ©Norma Bobb-Semple 2020

Expectations

    Expectations are one dimensional.  We can only have expectations of ourselves and work towards bringing those expectations to life.   If we invest into having expectations of others we invite pain and regret into our lives, which you can agree is foolhardy.   People act out what they think of themselves and there is […]

Unlocking Fear

  We live constantly in fear of not having enough and not being enough.   Fear is the shadow that follows us in our dread of loneliness, disease and death.  The presence of fear is an opportunity to engage that fear and see what, like a mirror, it is reflecting to us.  Fear is only […]

When all you do is just not enough

Photo credited to Pixabay   When you have done all you can, for as long as you can and it seems as though all you have as a result is pain and heartache it is time for you to say thanks for the lessons learned, to let go and allow grace to have its way. […]

Positive Choices Matters

Photo credited to Pixabay   We cannot allow the pain people inflict on us to negatively impact the choices we make.  Making poor choices because of what happened to us, and thinking that our downward spiral would make our perpetrators contrite is an absolute lie, in fact it emboldens them to continue abasing their fellow […]