Fear

When we entertain fear self pity becomes our constant companion. Brokenness creates a chasm between us and our sanity. Fear causes us to make decisions that are detrimental to our well being. We don’t need all the trappings of this world, not having a family or friends aren’t handicaps, they are opportunities in becoming more […]

Prioritizing our Time

There are things that matters more than money and influence and that is spending time with ourselves and our family, especially our children. The time we have to spend with our kids is short. If we don’t know ourselves how can we build on our core values? Without knowledge of self we become like a […]

A Sense of Belonging

When we don’t feel a sense of belonging we become empty, morass and despondent. Everybody wants to have a place to belong to, a family to belong to, and a sense of appreciation from their peers.   Not knowing your identity and the origin of your ancestors is like falling from space without a parachute. […]

Why do we Stay

  Some people say if it was that bad why did you stay.  People stay because they are afraid of being ostracized.  We all want to belong and therefore we self deface ourselves by being in relationships that damages our psyche and our health.  Feel free to agree or disagree with me.  We attribute blame […]