Decisions

When we who are of sound mind makes a decision that not only affects our lives but the lives of our loved ones we have to take our exit. Only users do what they do with the expectation of excusing themselves into getting another opportunity to abuse and use the person/persons they disrespected. When we […]

Loyalty

We have to extend loyalty in order to have it reverberated towards us. Loyalty is a state of being. It isn’t activated because of the need to impress. It has to be who we are. If we are self serving, a user, we have to own it, and have no expectations of another person’s loyalty […]

Blurred Vision

How we see ourselves matters. What we expect of ourselves matters. Our expectations should match the effort and work we apply to the life we want to live and experience. This life is all we have. A grifter lives a life built on lies. © Norma Bobb-Semple

Predators

Some of us are trained to believe in the idea that humans can be transformed. Each of us are whom we chose to be. You can only change yourself. Do you expect a lion, a tiger, a leopard, a snake or an alligator to behave outside of who they are? Why then do you think […]

Standing on the precipice

Many of us stand on the edge of the precipice on a daily basis. We do what we do with no regard as to the consequences. Our expectations outweighs our personal responsibility. In our deluded minds we believe that other people are there to catch us if we fall, since they are in our circle […]

Expectations

We have to leave room in our relationships for change.  We all go through the process of transformation whether or not we are aware of its occurrence in our lives.  We grow and as we grow we have to accept that the people in our lives might grow with us or grow away in a […]

What the future holds for me

My intention is to create memorable moments in my life.   To live in the moment and not to take anything in a personal way.  To remember that I am both the student and the teacher and to treat every experience as a learning experience.   I am determined to act in all situations for […]