Bravado

When we unleash our brashness, arrogance and ineptitude on others it is not that we are showing how unmerciful and cruel we are; it is because we believe that our bravado would earn us the respect we seek and believe we are entitled to.   A life built on deception is like building a house without a […]

Expectations

We have to leave room in our relationships for change.  We all go through the process of transformation whether or not we are aware of its occurrence in our lives.  We grow and as we grow we have to accept that the people in our lives might grow with us or grow away in a […]

Belief

Do we believe we are superior?   Do we employ deception in our everyday interaction with other people?  Do we believe in self entitlement?   Belief in all or some of the aforementioned should cause us to stop and reflect on how we arrived here and where we are headed to.   Life and death is […]

Health

  If being healthy matters then we must  pay attention to what we daily ingest, including our food, and drink.  We have to work at it with precision, in the same way a surgeon skilfully handles his scalpel.   Ill health just doesn’t creep into our lives, we are the catalyst that causes it to […]

Attachment

Instead of creating partnerships we tend to veer towards getting attached to people or things, depending on what our vision is of the perfect utopia.   Having a job, a family, a house, car or money, is not an indication of success when the majority is subjected to a life of penury while the minority builds wealth […]

Self obsession

  Self interest in one’s self to the exclusion of everyone else’s right to make choices is selfish and uncouth.   Life is not singular, it is plural.  We are a micro of this Universe and if we live in sync with it we would notice that the sun, moon, stars, all bodies of water, […]

Free Pass

    No one is entitled to a free pass.  People are not tools that can be reused as need be.  We are living, breathing entitles who deserves the same respect we mete out to others.   Spring cleaning is not only related to house keeping, relationships familiar or otherwise needs to be evaluated as […]